Maturity is a matter of choice

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“We are not of what we feel or believe

to do, we are of what we do or fail to do.”

–Judith McNaught

If you keep thinking the same thoughts, you

cannot expect a different feeling and behavior.

Being your Big Self is for people who want to change.

Until you want it, you won’t be able to obtain it.

“If you feel lost, disappointed, hesitant, or weak, return to yourself, to who you are, here and now and when you get there, you will discover yourself, like a lotus flower in full bloom, even in a muddy pond, beautiful and strong.” 

― Masaru Emoto

“You are -- your life, and nothing else.” 

― Jean-Paul Sartre 

“Cowardice is when you hide away from your real self, and wear another self in pretense. Be yourself; that is bravery. If yourself is not better for you to be, change yourself and live in that changed self!” 

― Israelmore Ayivor 

“I wanted only to live in accord with the promptings which came from my true self. Why was that so very difficult?” 

― Hermann Hesse

“There's always the option of deciding 

for yourself who you are and what you'll become.” 

― Jodi Meadows